So, i had me third breakup a while ago. but it wasn't really a true breakup. i realize now that it takes.

I was with this guy for about 4 months. and by those 4 months end i couldn't stand him anymore. and when i broke up with him, i said it was alright if we stayed in touch. BIG MISTAKE.

here's the thing... when you go through a breakup, no matter how hard, it's important to give eachother space to mend. and it's also important to not fuck up everything, leaving a nice breakup to a huge mess with lots of cracks and losses.

Just take my advice. when it's over, it's over. GET IT?
if both parts keep pushing each other it wont even be a breakup, it'll just be like being in a MUCH WORSE relationship.

Leave it. when it's broken beyond repair, why the hell would you keep playing with it? you'd only hurt yourself and the other more.

anyways, a little comfort at the end if you're going through a breakup yourself.
          it'll be fine. i promise. and dont take my word for it. live on in your misery to prove me wrong and you'll see. it'll be fine. hang out with friends, eat unhealthy food and have your weepynights. you deserve a night to weep like a 3 year old.