Am I the only one who is sick of people saying "just be who you are"?
I hate when people say that.
We CHOOSE who we are, simple as that. And if you don't get it, then take a spet back and look again. If you don't really know who you are, then hell, you're a person who's not sure of who you are. AND it is you choice not to know, cause if you really cant to know, then GO FIND OUT.

This might sound a bit hypocritical, cause I don't always know who I am either. But then again, I do know.

I am a creative, confusing person, everchanging and with many different sides of personality.
I am a quiet loner, AND a bomb of energy just exploding with different emotions by the flash of a moment. I am a person, not sure of who I am. And that is me.

And I might change. Maybe someday I will know who I am, within the stereotypes. But that will be me then.

You choose to be scared of people.
You choose to be ever angry.
You choose to be complicated.

We all got different defaults. To some, being open and honest is easier than to other. But it is our choice to accept that, right? It is out choice to ... not fight for a change we want ourselves. We're not perfect, and we're not suppose to try being perfect either. But we are suppose to fight to be better. Always. People saying you don't need to change at all are morons.

Being better doesn't exclude being yourself. You should always try to be better. Not the best, not perfect, just a little bit better. Today, I'm going to be a little bit better. A little bit more like I think is good.

You are always yourself. Even if you fake it, and try to be something else, then you are yourself. It's just that yourself is a person who's trying to be different things.
Oh, and just a final note. There is a big difference to fake something, and try to change something.

I choose to be creative. I didn't choose to be good at it, but I chose to do anything to become good.
And the same thing, I didn't choose to be sad all the time, but it's my choice to do nothing about it. And I have chosed to try, being a little less sad sometimes.

How about you?