Does He Like You? - Flirting

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Have you ever wondered if your crush likes you back?
There are millions of tests on the web and in magazines that'll try to give you some sort of pointer to wether or not he likes you back, but the thing is, it's hard to figure out.
Those tests doesn't know if you guys are good friends already, or if he's more or less a distant crush or something. So let me just give you a few of the things that I've learned about guys.
HOWEVER
I'm NOT an expert. This is just some of the things that I've noticed, but every guy and every situation is different, so just .... yeah.



FLIRTING?
Now, this is the one that is the easiest for others to see, but you aren't likely to realize it uintil after you've already confessed your undying love. Or something like that.
    The thing is, seing flirting is difficult cause most people, at least those who don't think too high of themselves, don't want to be mistaken. No one wants to believe that someone is into you, then realize they were just being friendly. Some people also are friendly in a way that might seem like flirting, and there isn't really much to do about it.

My best advise would be to ask your friends and, if possible, his friends as well. Since they're not the ones scared of being wron, they're far more likely to see what you can't. Just make sure those are friends that'll give you the harsh truth.

Another thing is body language. There are tons of guides to reading body language, and to be honest, it's difficult as fuck. Not reading it itself, but to remember to do it. Here's what you'll need the most;

  • Notice how he's got his arms if you're sitting next to eachother. If he has them in his lap and his shoulders are up tight, he's either uncomfortable or nervous. If he's got his arms behind his head or in any other way not close to his body, then he's relaxed. Basically, just watch his body to see if he seems restless, relaxed, nervous or anything like that. 
  • Fighting! Oh dear god, this is the one that is the most obvious one to everyone else. If he's always tickeling you, smacking your ass or scaring you, then he most likely likes you. Let me give you an example; There was this guy and me, and we used to have sort of tickle fights. Like, rolling around on the ground type of fights. And then I started to notice that he kinda ... stopped working so hard getting me off if I was trying to pin him down or something. Just .... yeah ...
  • seriously thought, teasing and poking and stuff like that is a pretty good sign. 
Jokes. Jokes usually have a tiny bit of truth in them, so if he's joking about you guys getting married and having 20 kids, he might not mean all of that, but there is a pretty good chance he kinda likes you. If you guys have nicknames that aren't suppose to be serious, like "lovebug honeycookie sugarbabe" then there might turn out to be more truth to them than you'd think.

And I think that's about it really.
The thing about guys is that it's always difficult to know if they're really into you, or maybe they're just of the flirty type without really meaning anything about it. But honestly, I think you have a clue. I've always seen the possibility after a while, even though I might not see it at first. Ask your friends, ask yourself, and if you think there is a chance, just be extra charming and make a few jokes about the two of you. See his reaction and take it from there.

Good luck!

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